Chapter X

Seeing Others Clearly

Intuition in Relationships

Watch what people do more than what they say.

Healthy relationshipsEmotional intelligenceManipulationAuthenticityAttachmentEmpathyCompassion

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The Lesson

Words are the story a person tells. Behavior is the truth they live. Intuition scans for congruence — whether what someone says matches what they do, and whether what you feel around them matches what they claim to be.

You are not being paranoid when you notice a mismatch. You are being awake.

The Workbook

Exercises for this chapter.

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Exercise 1

Energy vs Words

Two columns.

Exercise 2

Relational Intuition

Notice the felt quality of the people around you.